The Bartlinski Bunch

" Teresa "

" Teresa "

Teresa "Fang Fang " Bartlinski

Teresa was born on December 25, 2006 in China. She was born with a very complex heart condition. In July 2010, GOD added Teresa to our family through adoption. We have been blessed with 9 wonderful children. Gods grace has woven us together as a family. Upon bringing Teresa home from China we unfortunately learned she not only needed a heart transplant but also a lung transplant. Her doctors feel she would not survive this operation. Please help us to pray for a miracle for Teresa's heart and lungs to be healed. She is a very special little soul who has touched so many lives around the world ...
I BELIEVE IN MIRACLES!

Tuesday, June 14, 2011

Counting the days ...




Last night our 2 angels from The Make A Wish foundation came over to deliver Teresa's itinerary for her wish trip. It is going to be a wonderful trip filled with so much magic for Teresa. The excitement is growing . The girls are counting down the days!

Last week Teresa informed me that she was not going to wear her oxygen in Florida because Princesses do not need oxygen . The child life specialist at Hopkins came up with a fantastic idea . They gave Teresa a Princess Aurora doll wearing oxygen . She was so happy . She can not wait to show all of the princesses her doll wearing oxygen just like her.

A few days ago Lucy started not feeling well. She has a very bad virus that is affecting her asthma along with a very high fever.
She is on an antibiotic, oral steroids and nebulizer treatments trying to get it under control.
For the past 11 months we have lived in fear of
Teresa catching a virus . If she should get the virus Lucy has , she most likely will not be able to go on her trip.
I must sound like a broken record to the kids saying ,"take off your shoes, wash your hands, can that be bleached?..." I am so tired of living in fear .

I am trusting God will protect her and give her the most magical week of her life .

Thursday, June 9, 2011

Anticipation







The anticipation is growing !

The girls are so excited . Teresa has packed and unpacked her princess suitcase 100 times . She has it filled with all of her treasures.

We leave in little over one week . Gemma will go tomorrow for her blood transfusion ,oxygen has been ordered for Florida, portable oxygen concentrator has been ordered for the plane,all Teresa's, Gemma's and Lucy's medicines will be delivered tomorrow and all Teresa's Doctors have been notified along with which Hospital to contact in Florida should we have an emergency . I think we are good to go !

On a much sadder note , we received very sad news this week from China. Josiah ( the little boy we found starving to death in a BJ. orphanage in November 2009 and had moved to Lynsay and Bill's orphanage-Morning Star Foster home-), was sent back to his orphanage this week . The local family trying to adopt him was not permitted to . His file will supposedly now be prepared for international adoption . This could take months. Although this orphanage is one of the nicest orphanages we have seen , it is still the same orphanage that was letting him starve to death . It is not a family with a Mom and Dad. It is very sterile . I have to trust that God has a plan for Josiah's life that will some day involve a family of his own . Until then we must pray for him not to lose hope and to keep his health strong. At this same orphanage is another child we met in November 2009 also who still waits for her family to find her . I am not sure why she is still waiting... she is beautiful , kind and very soft spoken . Her medical condition is arthrogyposis. If you would like any more information on Josiah or Jia Yi please let me know .

Saturday, June 4, 2011

CHOP report

Yesterday as we went to CHOP we were really hoping the increases in Teresa's medicine would produce better heart function . Unfortunately the news was not good. The meds. are keeping her stable for now but she has not had any improvement in her heart or lungs.

Her tricuspid valve is still severely leaking, her pulmonary pressure is EXTREMELY high ,the pulmonary gradiant has not improved,she has not gained weight in 6 months, her hemoglobin is very high causing her blood to be very thick and her liver is still enlarged.
The scenario the Doctor gave us was: water (blood ) is trickling to the crops (her lungs) through the irrigation pipe ( her pulmonary artery ) to water the plant just enough to sustain it for each day . She is slowly suffocating . Oxygen will help her minimally at best. Her lungs are just too damaged to accept the oxygen . We had started Sildenafil 9 months ago with the hope that it would help to dilate her lungs so she could breath better. She is now on the maximum dose. If this has not helped then she may only have a few more months or possibly by miracle a few years if she does not get any more colds . She will have another heart Catherization in September to give us a better reading on her lungs. Right now we need to pray for her pulmonary hypertension to improve . Without surgery there is no cure for this and her lungs have sustained permanent damage from the hypertension . The cure - A MIRACLE !

Teresa needed life saving surgery the first few months after birth to save her heart and lungs . She received pulmonary banding at almost one year of age and it was already too late . Her lungs were already damaged and the band was not put on tight enough causing the damage to continue.
What is so sad is that Doctors from the United States are always traveling to China for medical conferences to teach on the latest improvements in health care.
Teresa's Doctor at CHOP just returned from a 2 week conference in China , visiting BJ., Shanghai, Wuhan , Nanning and Guangzhou Hospitals... NOT ONE ORPHAN had life saving surgery during this time ! Lucy's Urologist at Hopkins is the worlds best pediatric urologist. He went to China last year to operate on a government officials son in Shanghai. Wined , dined , golfed for 2 weeks and only the government officials son was operated on ... NOT ONE ORPHAN ! Why ? Why aren't they aware of this tremendous need to help the orphans also?
Well, I said this to Teresa's Doctor yesterday and as we were leaving Ed said I probably should not have said that , but you know what , if Teresa had received surgery sooner, her life would have been saved. EVERYONE needs to be aware. They can't just live in their own little world and think someone else will help those in need . They have the ability to save so many lives.

If it is Gods will, my dream is to start "Teresa's Heart Hospital in China" .This would allow for orphans to receive life saving surgery EARLY in life , before irreversible damage is done to their heart and lungs. They would be able to receive the best medical care, not secondary care because they happen to be born orphans.
If anyone would like to help , offer advice or has contacts please just let me know . If this is Gods will it will happen .

Wednesday, June 1, 2011

A Wish Come True

Thanks to a wonderful organization - The Make A Wish Foundation- , Teresa's wish is coming true.

She wished to be a princess and to meet Belle.
Because of her declining health, her wish has been expedited and she will be going to Disney World at the end of June .
We are so grateful to The Make a Wish org. because with out them we would have never been able to take her to Disney World.

Trips to Disney use to be a family vacation we would go on with our sons when they were young. Since adopting the girls it has become a treasured vacation of the past , something we can no longer afford to do .

We even debated whether or not to go on this trip now but after meeting with The Make A Wish org. , they will cover every part of Teresa's wish . How unbelievable is that .
This will be our first Family vacation with all of our children in over three years. Having all of our children together to celebrate Teresa's Wish was very important.

She will have a "Princess" makeover and a meet and greet with Belle. We have a special lunch planned (for Mom and Teresa) in Cinderellas Castle and we are waiting to see if she can meet the cast of Beauty and The Beast at Disney's Hollywood Studios. She really wants to meet The Beast, Belle and Chip . And look out Gaston , she is going to tell him to leave Belle alone and not to hurt the Beast !

We are a little apprehensive about the heat in Florida and how it will affect Teresa's breathing . So we are going to be very careful and try to keep her in the A/C as much as possible or even the pool . WE are taking her oxygen with us also.

We are praying Teresa will have a wonderful time without any medical emergencies.
We are also praying for Ed's Office to be able sustain the business while he is gone ( this is a huge worry ). The only time he has been off in the last 3 years has been to go to China .


We are going to CHOP on Friday to see if the increase in Teresa's meds. has had any affect on her heart function . We are praying for good news. She is still having episodes where she has great difficulty breathing and becomes very tired .

She can not wait to go to Florida. Every time a plane flies over she looks up and says, " Look they are going to see the princesses , ME TOO!"
She is soooo excited to pack her own suitcase .
All of the girls can not wait!!!!

Thursday, May 26, 2011

Princess Party








This week a group of amazing seniors from Mt. De Sales took time out of their busy senior week activities and had a "Princess PARTY " FOR Teresa and Gemma. These young ladies came dressed in their favorite princess attire. They read the girls books , let the girls put make up on them and talked about what it was like being a "Princess".
The girls loved it !
Thank you Mary for organizing this magical day ! We are so blessed by your friendship.

Lucy received great news this week . The surgery she had a few months ago on her bladder and kidney was a success and she will not require any further treatment.!!!

The photos are of our "Happy Times " over the past few weeks, Grandpops and Mary's Birthday , the frogs turning to tadpoles , feeding the horses and being silly with bubbles.
Last night Tim Mcgraw sang "Live Like You were Dieing" on American Idol. This made me think what would I do differently ? Teresa lives like that everyday except she doesn't know she is dieing , to her it is just living and living with pure happiness for everything . Over the past year this is the biggest lesson our family has learned from Teresa. To celebrate every minute of every day as if it were your last and to be grateful for EVERYTHING .

Tuesday, May 24, 2011

Just OK



Teresa is having an OK week . Since coming home from the hospital she has been VERY tired. She is sleeping 15 hours every night and taking a nap every afternoon. I don't feel the increase in her medicine has had any affect yet. We will go back to CHOP next Friday to see.

This afternoon I heard back from Childrens Hospital of Pittsburgh . They were reviewing Teresa's medical information to see if they could offer a different diagnosis or alternate treatment. Unfortunately they also agreed with Hopkins, CHOP , Boston and Mayo.

We are trying to stay positive but at times it seems impossible. I keep wondering what is Gods plan for her life. So many miracles have happened through Teresa already . So many people have emailed me telling how God has moved their hearts to adopt, how Teresa has touched their lives, how they have returned to God through Teresa, how she has given their lives new meaning , how she has given them faith ... She has touched so many lives. I am so grateful for all of these miracles but I still want Teresas' miracle. I want her heart and lungs to be healed. If this is selfish well than I guess I am being selfish . I know we are not made for this world, but I need more time with her in this world .

(The photos are of Teresa in Mary's First Communion dress. She said she is not taking it off until she can marry Jesus. She has given up ALL of her princess dresses for this ONE ! Even Belle.)

Wednesday, May 18, 2011

We are Home


Teresa came home on Monday evening. She is slowly gaining her energy back and feeling better. She still becomes very winded when she tries to keep up with the other girls and requires her oxygen . Unfortunately the Doctors feel this is the progression of her heart/lung disease. Her heart is having trouble keeping up with her body (mostly her brain ,she thinks she can do ANYTHING). Painfully her disease is deteriorating faster than we expected. The good news is she does not feel like her life is slipping away . She was so happy to be home and playing "Princess" with her best friend , Gemma . Poor Gemma always is the Beast because Teresa insists that she is Belle. Today after school Teresa met Gemma at the door dressed in Lucy's First Communion Vail. She couldn't wait to tell her that she was going to marry Jesus!

I know I say this all the time but having Teresa in our lives has been an unbelievable experience .
When I walked through the door of the China Care Home 10 months ago and saw a tiny beautiful little girl with a crooked smile running up to me to give me a hug and saying "Mama" I knew I was in love. Meeting Teresa was a humbling experience. She has blessed our families lives in so many unbelievable ways. She is a very magical little girl . Our love and bonding with each other has grown so deep over the past 10 months . I can not imagine there will come a time when she may not be with us .
Recently 2 people said to me that they had not wanted to meet Teresa . They felt it would be too painful to know her and then lose her . I have to say this is what we too had thought before we said "Yes" to Gods Will and adopted her . How do you prepare to love someone with all of your heart and at the same time prepare to lose them . Meeting Teresa made it very easy for us . She is a very sweet, kind , sassy, strong willed ,determined loving little soul all wrapped up in a four year old little girls body .
Our families lives have been so enriched by having met and loved Teresa. She embraces life everyday no matter what the circumstances . She can find happiness everywhere and in everything from being in a hospital playing Doctor , wearing her oxygen and using the cord as a microphone to sing into ,giving high "fins" with her finny fin (high fives,she calls her small hand her finny fin ) to just coloring a picture of "her Family", she is so happy .

Thank you everyone for praying for our sweet girl.

Sunday, May 15, 2011

Sunday



Last night Teresa had a little set back . Her blood pressure and oxygen were dropping too low so her evening dose of medicine had to be lowered.
This morning she did much better. Her blood pressure was stable all day and her sats even reached 82 (with oxygen).
This is good news and we hope she will be able to reach the maximum dose with out any further side affects.
Her liver is also being affected by her heart causing it to become enlarged. The pressure in her heart and lungs are so high the blood from her liver can not return and is backing up in this organ .

Today Lucy and Mary had their ballet recital so Alex came to the hospital to stay with Teresa while Ed and I ran to the recital.
Sitting at the recital all I could do was worry about Teresa in the hospital , even though I knew she was stable and Alex was texting me every 30 minutes with an update.
It's hard to balance the feelings of happiness while at the same time the worry for another childs' life.
Life goes on even when their is pain and suffering in it.
Please keep in your prayers the little girl in the room next to Teresa. She is Gemma's friend from the infusion clinic. She is having a very difficult time right now as she prepares for an upcoming surgery .

Teresa really seemed to enjoy some one on one time today with Alex. He said she talked his ear off!

Saturday, May 14, 2011

Hospital update


Thank you for praying for Teresa. She is feeling much better today .She is on day 2 of her meds. being increased . So far she is tolerating it very well with no side effects. By Monday she will be at the maximum dose and if all goes well we will come home.
The hope is to try and slow the severe regurgitation and help her heart function better. The sad news is she is now at severe regurgitation of her tricuspid valve , 10 months ago it was only mild regurgitation . The options for her if the meds. do not work are not great .
She is still requiring oxygen to keep her sats. above 75. We are hoping to get her back to her base line without the use of oxygen but the Doctors think it may be something she requires more often now.
She still has her spunky sweet personality through it all. She helps the Doctors and nurses with all the tests and procedures. They are amazed at how well she cooperates with everything that is done to her. She has found happiness even in the hospital. She carries her pink Mickey purse with her everywhere filled with her stash of goodies to share with everyone . Her light continues to shine .

Friday, May 13, 2011

10 months home / hospital

Teresa was admitted to the hospital Thursday night in further heart failure. She was having trouble breathing and Very tired .
all her meds are being increased and monitored closely . Hopefully come home Monday . please pray for the meds to stop the severe tricuspid regurgitation .

Monday, May 9, 2011

Fortune Cookie

For Mothers Day we ordered Chinese food.
Guess what my fortune cookie said...

YOU WILL SOON WITNESS A MIRACLE !!!!!

Wednesday, May 4, 2011

The Blog

The Blog was originally started for our family and friends to follow our journey to China for Teresa. After coming home we decided to keep the blog as a way for everyone to keep updated on Teresa's health instead of switching to a Caring Bridge Site. I have tried to keep the blog as a way of looking at life through Teresa's eyes ( how she sees it ) . At times our life with all of our children has gotten mingled into the blog ( some more than others ). So as a way to keep everyone updated , I will share a little of what is going on with all of the kids.

Eddy and Laura just recently celebrated their one year Anniversary . They both have wonderful jobs and are very happy . They added two kittens to their lives who are very playful .
Paul and Meghan recently became engaged . They have set their wedding date for two years. Paul will finish medical school in two years and Meghan will finish PT school as well . They are loving life in the South (hopefully not too much , because I really want them to come back home when they graduate ).
Alex is back living at home and working . He will return to a local college in the fall and resume his pre- med studies . In the mean time he is working full time and volunteering at a local hospital in the orthopedic dept. The girls are so happy to have him home (me too !). He is such a big help .
Grace is really having fun playing lacrosse this year . She made the A team in her age group and is so happy . She LOVES lacrosse . Her second favorite thing is horse back riding . When she grows up she has always said she wanted to be a Veterinarian and have a whole barn full of horses. She has been riding since she was 3 years old .The one thing she does not like is having her photo taken ( as I am sure you can see from some of the photos). She has a very sweet personality but the teenage attitude sometimes gets the best of her .
Mary is enjoying Girl Scouts and Ballet this year . She has such a free personality that she goes with the flow of life ,nothing bothers her . She will have surgery on her cleft pallate this summer with a bone graft from her hip. Her nose will also be corrected . Surprisingly to me , she is looking forward to this surgery . She really wants to have a nose that looks normal she said . I think she is beautiful just the way she is .
Lucy is enjoying Girl Scouts and Ballet too. Lucy just recently made her First Holy Communion and is so proud . She loves school and is the social butterfly, friends with everyone . Lucy recently had surgery on her bladder and we will find out in a few weeks if it was a success . If not she will have a more invasive surgery to repair it . As she grows her health is becoming better with less problems from her lungs.
Emilia is doing so well after having the External Fixator removed form her leg . Her legs are now the same length. She is so happy to run and play like the other girls . She has even figured out a way to ride a bike ( her legs do not bend ). She has the most amazing personality ,she loves to help others . She has never complained about her legs or the pain . She has come so far from when we first a adopted her , she could not walk . Now she doesn't let anything stop her .
Gemma is our little Buddha Belly . She loves to eat !She also loves going to school . She has made so much progress with her speech this year . It is still difficult to understand her when she speaks in sentences but the funny thing is she uses pantomime to communicate . We have taught her a few signs but she prefers to make up her own . She is a go with the flow kinda girl , laid back and easy going . Her health has been a challenge this past year (she has Beta Thallasemia Major ) but we are confident her Doctors will have everything under control soon .
Teresa is a little princess with a very sassy personality .She loves to be in charge. She loves life and has so much fun experiencing everything . She has the most amazing personality that will leave you in awe. Having Teresa has definitely been a huge challenge on all levels but I cannot imagine our life without her . She has filled a place in my heart that I did not know I was missing . She has taught me so much that I did not know I needed to learn . She has shown me how to love unselfishly.

Ed and I have been married for almost 28 years, I married my best friend . If you had asked me then if I would have this many children , I probably would have laughed and said No way ! But I am so glad that God new exactly what I needed and was in control the whole time .

Sunday, May 1, 2011

What a weekend !

"I LUVA his shoes "





We had a very busy weekend . Friday Gemma had her blood transfusion , Saturday Lucy had her First Holy Communion and today (Sunday ) we participated in Brittany's Hope Walk Of Love in PA .

Gemma is feeling much better now that her Hemaglobin has increased to a safe level .
Teresa was feeling very tired on Saturday but today she was much better .
Lucy was soooo excited to make her first communion . She said she feels VERY Holy now. It was a very special day for her . Teresa keeps asking when it will be her turn . Teresa was upset because she could not wear her wedding gown and marry Jesus ( this was her interpretation of a first communion ).

The walk of love was an amazing day . Brittany's Hope is a wonderful organization that gives adoption grants to special needs orphans around the world . Emilia was a recipient of a BH grant when we adopted her . The grant helps to cover a portion of the enormous adoption expenses . Last year Emilia was one of the poster children for the organization and this year the girls had the privilege of holding the Chinese flag ( representing China ) for the walk . They were all so proud !
We also had time to catch up with some dear friends we had met through our adoptions. Kelly R. Is an amazing women getting ready to adopt 2 more special needs sons from
China . We met for the first time a very special person who was so helpful in having Teresa's medical information reviewed in America and getting her the medical care she needed while in China . It was only by chance that we ran into each other but I think it was divine intervention . She is a very special person who also has a daughter with Hypoplastic Left Heart Syndrome . We shared lots of information and I enjoyed hearing of how she knew Teresa In China .

If you would like an organization to support , please consider www.brittanyshope.org

Tomorrow is the start of another very busy week . We will head back to Sinai Hospital for Emilia's Legs to be checked . We are hopeful the bones are healing well with no complications.

I am so grateful to have these children God has blessed us with . Even though their medical care seems so enormous at times, it is a very small sacrifice to make. Just to be able to see them smile and be filled with so much happiness makes it all worth it .

Friday, April 29, 2011

Gaston's Shoes


It's always nice to have your best friend with you !

Today Gemma had her blood transfusion . She had a great month but unfortunately her hemoglobin dropped too low and she will have to go back to having her transfusions every 3 weeks from now on . Her body could not handle the 4 week schedule. Her ferritin was also at dangerously high levels .
We met with the head of Pediatric Hematology at Hopkins ( for the first time, we usually see another Doctor but he happened to be on call today ) and he discussed her best options.
He asked if we had considered a bone marrow transplant . After explaining her adoption to him and the very remote chance of even finding a matching biological donor , he then switched to plan B.
She will have to stay on the 3 week transfusion schedule, increase her daily infusion (for chelation ) from 5 days a week to 7 , and possibly have a spleenectomy if she does not show improvement.

If any one knows of a way to find birth parents or biological family members of children adopted from China please email me . Right now Gemma is doing great and not in a crisis but the continual blood transfusions and high ferritin levels over time damage the heart , liver and spleen . Gemma has already developed some liver damage .


Last week the girls and I were sitting on the front porch waiting for Gemma's weekly infusion medicine to be delivered. As the delivery man came up to the porch Teresa looked down at his shoes ( Like she does with EVERYONE ) . I was a little afraid of what was going to come out of her mouth next. " Oh Mommy I luva his shoes " . He started laughing and thought this was quite amusing . He had on old black work boots . I don't think he had ever had a positive comment about his shoes before .

After he left I asked her why she liked his boots so much . " Because they are just like Gaston's !"

Her favorite movie and Princess are Beauty and The Beast . Even though she did not like Gaston because he was so mean to Belle , she loved his shoes .

Teresa had another great week . She had a cold but it only lasted a few days. I am amazed at how well she responds to every little bug that comes her way . I become very nervous every time she sneezes because it always turns into a cold and the Doctors have explained to us how dangerous an infection could potentially damage her already fragile health.
Thank you everyone for continually praying for Teressa . We are so blessed to have so many fantastic caring people always lifting her up in prayer .

Monday, April 25, 2011

" My Jesus"


Two days after coming home from China with Teresa , we stopped by our Church on our way to Hopkins for Teresa to meet Father Whatley .

She was still speaking Mandarin and understood very little English but she really seemed to make a connection with Father Whatley.
Several weeks later we started taking Teresa with us to mass on Sundays. On Sunday mornings she would become very excited about going to church and seeing Jesus. She loves to sing the Alleluia . I don't remember exactly when but one particular Sunday as I was holding her during Mass, she took her hand and turned my head to the altar and said , " Look Mom , I see my Jesus". Thinking she was looking at Jesus on the cross or the stained glass windows, I said " I know isn't that a beautiful picture of Jesus". To which she replied, " NO , I see MY Jesus up there ",pointing to Father Whatley . I explained to her that was Father Whatley and he was Jesus' friend who helped him here on earth . She became a little MAD and said " NO , HE is MY Jesus!"

Father Whatley was so instrumental in helping us to bring Teresa home . His spiritual guidance is what lead us to follow through with Gods will when we were so unsure of how we would financially pay for Teressa's adoption or medical bills. We were unsure of how to care for a child so ill and how to prepare our other children for her severe medical condition .

As we walked up to communion on Good Friday , she was whispering to herself, " I am going to see my Jesus, I am going to see my Jesus". As we came closer to Father Whatley , it turned to " Hi Jesus , Hi Jesus " and lots of waiving at him!

Father Whatley was the first person Teresa met after coming home from China . I know she calls him " Her Jesus", because she can see Jesus in him .

I hope everyone had as wonderful Easter Holiday . We were very blessed to have all of our children home with us for the holiday .

Saturday, April 23, 2011

9 months , Birthdays , Easter Eggs ,Engagements...






One week through Teresa's eye's !

Tuesday, April 19, 2011

D.C. Cupcakes





After 1 1/2 days spent in the bank, at the MVA and on the phone canceling everything in our life ,all from one persons evil act , we decided to still go to D.C .Cupcakes . Thank you to Grandpop for treating the girls to this day !

This person I am sure has no idea how drastically he has effected our life . Besides from the things that were stolen , he has caused a lot of fear in 2 of the girls causing problems with sleeping and a fear of someone stealing them .

So today we decided to do something fun . We went to D.C. Cupcakes and were hoping to meet Sopie and Katherine but they were in L.A. taping for their show . The girls had a great time tasting all of the different flavors. Teresa loved it ! As we turned to leave I caught Teresa eating sprinkles off the floor ( Yuk) . She was in cupcake heaven .

Sunday, April 17, 2011

The Good /The Bad



The good news is Teresa had another great week . She is feeling so well and loving spring time. We seem to have made it through the winter with only one major hospitalization and a few close calls. She did so much better than any of us thought possible . When her cardiologist explained to us at the beginning of winter all the possibilities that could happen over the winter flu months , we were all afraid she might not make it through the winter ... BUT she did !!!!! We are now into spring Yeah !!! Thank you prayer warriors !!! You carried her through the winter . We are eternally grateful to you all !

The other GREAT news is ... we have another wonderful daughter in law ( well almost )!
Paul proposed to Meghan last night ! We love Meghan ! She has been Paul's best friend since high school . She is such a sweet, caring and nice girl. They do not plan on getting married for a few more years because Paul would like to finish medical school and Meghan would like to finish PT school first . We are so happy for the two of them .

The bad news ... My car was broken into and my purse was stolen . Even though it will be a pain to replace my drivers license , bank card , broken window ... I had all of Teresa's medical records in my purse to be sent to Pitt. for a second opinion . I can still send them , it will just take me some time to recopy them all.
It is very disheartening when you work so hard and it is taken away so fast by someone who doesn't care at all. What little money we had saved for Grace, Eddy and Mary's Birthday this month was taken also .
I know , I should not have left my purse in the car , believe me , I have learned my lesson !

Wednesday, April 13, 2011

Cherry Blossom Festival






Teresa is having another wonderful week . She looks great and has so much energy .
For someone who's oxygen is between 75-80 , I am amazed at how well she functions on a daily basis . She does not want to miss anything !

Living so close to DC. I have always wanted to see The Cherry Blossom Festival but have never gotten around to it . These past 8 months with Teresa we have tried to let her experience everything possible, so we decided since she was feeling so well and the weather was suppose to be beautiful we would go .

She loved all of the sites and had a fantastic time making her own little kite to fly !

We stopped at DC. cupcakes on the way home . The girls were so excited ... until we drove by and saw the enormous line, over a 2 hour wait . Maybe next time .

Friday, April 8, 2011

The China Care News letter

Here is the link for the China Care Spring News Letter with an update of Teresa in it .

http://www.chinacare.org/files/newsletters/ChinaCareNewsletter_Spring2011.pdf

Teresa's Sleep Study


Last night Teresa had her sleep study to make sure her oxygen level was not dropping too low while she sleeps. I explained to her it would be like a sticker party with stickers everywhere . At first she thought wow this is going to be fun , but her opinion quickly changed as you can see from the photo. She did great though and did not cry or complain .
Waiting for the results ...

Tuesday, April 5, 2011

Happy Birthday Alex !




Yesterday was Alex's 20th. Birthday ! We celebrated with our Chinese candle (blow torch ) we bought while in China . Alex had to move back home from Alabama a few weeks ago due to no fault of his own . Because of our financial situation we could not afford the tuition and he could not afford to graduate $ 100,000.00 in debt. He loved the school , his classes , new friends and he even joined a fraternity . He was very disappointed .
So now he is working full time saving his money and will return to Towson in the fall. It is what it is and I believe everything happens for a reason .
Alex has always been a great son . While we were in China adopting Teresa he took care of Mary , Emilia and Gemma . He cooked, cleaned, took Gemma for her blood transfusions and made sure Emilia's leg did not get infected or have any complications. He was so responsible we had complete trust in him . His goal is to be an Orthopedic Surgeon . After seeing Emilia's legs and how mangled they were when she was adopted he has decided to make this the field he will major in . I know he will make a fantastic , caring Doctor .

Lucy started not feeling well yesterday . This morning her lungs were making all kinds of snap , crackle and pop noises. She has pneumonia in her left lobe and the right middle lobe has partially collapsed. So back on antibiotics , prednisone, albuterol, flovent and Tylenol. This evening she started feeling a little bit better.
Just hoping Teresa does not get this !
So far this week Teresa is feeling great . She has had a few times during the week when her oxygen dropped below 75 and she required the use of oxygen but for the most part she is doing fantastic .

Thank you for continuing to keep her in your prayers. Your Prayers have carried her through the winter .